{"id":5072,"date":"2023-10-20T17:25:23","date_gmt":"2023-10-20T21:25:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/?p=5072"},"modified":"2023-10-20T17:25:23","modified_gmt":"2023-10-20T21:25:23","slug":"retour-a-la-vraie-vie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2023\/10\/20\/retour-a-la-vraie-vie\/","title":{"rendered":"Retour \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0vraie\u00a0\u00bb vie!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Lorsque la fin du chemin approche, le retour \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9alit\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb est souvent envisag\u00e9 avec un pincement au c\u0153ur. Plusieurs en parlent comme d\u2019un retour \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0vraie vie\u00a0\u00bb. Comme s\u2019il y avait une \u00ab\u00a0vraie\u00a0\u00bb et une \u00ab\u00a0fausse\u00a0\u00bb vie! Comme si, pour un temps, j\u2019\u00e9tais sorti de moi et que j\u2019allais \u00ab\u00a0enfin\u00a0\u00bb revenir \u00e0 la raison en retrouvant mon quotidien. L\u2019expression en dit long, tout comme le sentiment qu\u2019elle laisse: il interroge. O\u00f9 et quand la vie commence-t-elle? \u00c0 quel bout du chemin se situe-t-elle? Avant ou apr\u00e8s?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"225\" data-attachment-id=\"5075\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2023\/10\/20\/retour-a-la-vraie-vie\/20230926_091653\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?fit=4032%2C1816&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4032,1816\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-G781W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1695719813&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;5.4&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0017857142857143&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20230926_091653\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?fit=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=500%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5075\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=500%2C225&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=768%2C346&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=1536%2C692&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?resize=2048%2C922&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20230926_091653.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Lorsqu\u2019arrive ce \u00ab\u00a0retour \u00e0 la vraie vie\u00a0\u00bb, \u00e7a m\u2019amuse de bousculer ce qui semblait anodin en posant la question\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Et ce que tu vis, en ce moment, c\u2019est faux?\u00a0\u00bb. Pendant un instant, on a l\u2019impression que le temps s\u2019arr\u00eate. La personne r\u00e9alise ce qu\u2019elle vient de dire. Un court silence vient souligner la surprise puis, un sourire en coin, la personne r\u00e9pond g\u00e9n\u00e9ralement\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0non, mais tu comprends ce que je veux dire. \u2013 Non, pas tellement! Qu\u2019est-ce qui n\u2019est pas vrai en ce moment? Qu\u2019est-ce qui t\u2019emp\u00eache de dire que ce que tu vis ici est vrai?\u00a0\u00bb. La question \u00e0 1000 piastres! Pas toujours facile de descendre dans cet espace\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pourtant, il importe de se colletailler avec cette question. Elle vient nous situer dans nos r\u00e9sistances et nos enfermements. Affirmer qu\u2019il existe une \u00ab&nbsp;vraie vie&nbsp;\u00bb, implique qu\u2019il y a du faux quelque part, qu\u2019il existe une part de vie mensong\u00e8re. Alors, est-ce la vie de p\u00e8lerin qui est mensong\u00e8re ou mon quotidien? Si un certain malaise m\u2019emp\u00eache de consid\u00e9rer mon quotidien comme faux, c\u2019est bien pour cela que je ne peux reconnaitre que ce que je vis sur les chemins de p\u00e8lerinage est vrai ou appelle le vrai en moi. L\u2019\u00e9cart est trop grand! Surgit alors comme un conflit de loyaut\u00e9, une ambigu\u00eft\u00e9 qui viendrait compromettre ce que j\u2019ai mis des ann\u00e9es \u00e0 construire. Parler d\u2019un retour \u00e0 la \u00ab&nbsp;vraie vie&nbsp;\u00bb pose ainsi un enjeu de v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Mais alors, qu\u2019est-ce qu\u2019une vie vraie?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"225\" data-attachment-id=\"5076\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2023\/10\/20\/retour-a-la-vraie-vie\/20231010_112819\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?fit=4032%2C1816&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4032,1816\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-G781W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1696937299&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;5.4&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0010504201680672&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20231010_112819\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?fit=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=500%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5076\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=500%2C225&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=768%2C346&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=1536%2C692&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?resize=2048%2C922&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231010_112819.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>On se retrouve ici face \u00e0 un effet propre \u00e0 l\u2019exp\u00e9rience p\u00e8lerine qui vient soulever la perversit\u00e9 de nos vies. On s\u2019entend, lorsque je dis perversit\u00e9 je dis qu\u2019il y a inversion. Ce qui est bon est pris pour mauvais et ce qui est mauvais est pris pour bon. L\u2019exp\u00e9rience p\u00e8lerine \u00e0 cet effet, elle nous r\u00e9v\u00e8le \u00e0 nous-m\u00eames en nous faisant passer de l\u2019autre c\u00f4t\u00e9 du miroir&nbsp;: l\u00e0 o\u00f9 ce que l\u2019on croyait \u00e0 gauche est en r\u00e9alit\u00e9 \u00e0 droite\u2026 Je dois donc prendre le temps de consid\u00e9rer comment cet appel \u00e0 la v\u00e9rit\u00e9 m\u2019interpelle. En quoi suis-je appel\u00e9 \u00e0 plus de v\u00e9rit\u00e9 sur ma vie?<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-medium\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"500\" height=\"225\" data-attachment-id=\"5083\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2023\/10\/20\/retour-a-la-vraie-vie\/20231007_131354\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?fit=4032%2C1816&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4032,1816\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-G781W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1696684435&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;5.4&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.0010672358591249&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20231007_131354\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?fit=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=500%2C225&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5083\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=500%2C225&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=768%2C346&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=1024%2C461&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=1536%2C692&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?resize=2048%2C922&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231007_131354.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Aussi, il importe donc de ne pas balayer trop vite l\u2019exp\u00e9rience du chemin en se disant que nous allons bient\u00f4t retourner \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0vraie vie\u00a0\u00bb. Au contraire, je dois me laisser interroger par cet enjeu de v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Il y a du vrai de part et d\u2019autre, du faux de part et d\u2019autre. Mais, comment vais-je les reconnaitre? Tout va se jouer dans cet espace\u00a0: discerner le bon go\u00fbt de la vie! Pour y parvenir il suffit d\u2019\u00eatre attentif \u00e0 ce qui se joue en nous, en d\u00e9passant nos craintes, notre culture, notre \u00e9ducation, nos croyances, nos pr\u00e9jug\u00e9s, pour \u00e9couter ce qui parle au c\u0153ur de l\u2019humain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nous avons tous fait l\u2019exp\u00e9rience de cette conviction profonde, celle d\u2019entendre cette voix qui parle au plus profond de soi et qui connait ce qui est juste, ce qui est bon et qui invite \u00e0 plus de v\u00e9rit\u00e9. Il ne reste plus qu\u2019\u00e0 lui r\u00e9pondre avec confiance!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"160\" height=\"126\" data-attachment-id=\"5073\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2023\/10\/20\/retour-a-la-vraie-vie\/bottes-et-velo-embleme-transparent-petit\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Bottes-et-Velo-Embleme-transparent-petit.png?fit=160%2C126&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"160,126\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Bottes et V\u00e9lo &amp;#8211; Embl\u00eame &amp;#8211; transparent (petit)\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Bottes-et-Velo-Embleme-transparent-petit.png?fit=160%2C126&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Bottes-et-Velo-Embleme-transparent-petit.png?resize=160%2C126&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5073\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>\u00c9ric Lalibert\u00e9<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lorsque la fin du chemin approche, le retour \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0r\u00e9alit\u00e9\u00a0\u00bb est souvent envisag\u00e9 avec un pincement au c\u0153ur. Plusieurs en parlent comme d\u2019un retour \u00e0 la \u00ab\u00a0vraie vie\u00a0\u00bb. Comme s\u2019il y avait une \u00ab\u00a0vraie\u00a0\u00bb et une \u00ab\u00a0fausse\u00a0\u00bb vie! Comme si, pour un temps, j\u2019\u00e9tais sorti de moi et que j\u2019allais \u00ab\u00a0enfin\u00a0\u00bb revenir \u00e0 la&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5074,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[50,166,629,3,381],"tags":[275,168,426,96],"class_list":["post-5072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-art-de-vivre","category-demarche-du-pelerin","category-phenomene-pelerin","category-reflexions","category-transformation","tag-art-de-vivre","tag-demarche-du-pelerin","tag-experience-pelerine","tag-qualite-de-vie"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/20231012_102208.jpg?fit=4000%2C1800&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eY6z-1jO","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5072","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5072"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5072\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5088,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5072\/revisions\/5088"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5074"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5072"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5072"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5072"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}