{"id":3820,"date":"2019-10-25T07:49:03","date_gmt":"2019-10-25T11:49:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/?p=3820"},"modified":"2019-10-25T07:49:03","modified_gmt":"2019-10-25T11:49:03","slug":"ce-chemin-qui-fait-parler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/25\/ce-chemin-qui-fait-parler\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce chemin qui fait parler"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Lors d\u2019une entrevue avec une p\u00e8lerine, sur les chemins de Compostelle, je lui demandai de me raconter son chemin.\u00a0 \u00c0 ma grande surprise, elle commen\u00e7a son r\u00e9cit en disant : \u00ab Vous savez, moi, je viens d\u2019une famille de neuf enfants. Je suis la plus vieille. Tr\u00e8s jeune, il a fallu que j\u2019apprenne \u00e0 m\u2019occuper de toute la famille. Je n\u2019ai jamais eu beaucoup de temps pour moi\u2026 \u00bb. Loin du chemin de terre, son chemin de Compostelle prenait racine dans sa lointaine jeunesse et faisait monter en elle, sans le savoir, l\u2019\u00e9lan qui l\u2019avait mise en route.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3821\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/25\/ce-chemin-qui-fait-parler\/20190710_085641\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190710_085641.jpg?fit=4032%2C1960&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4032,1960\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.7&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-G950W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1562749001&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.25&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;50&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00331125827815&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20190710_085641\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190710_085641.jpg?fit=1024%2C498&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190710_085641.jpg?fit=1024%2C498\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3821\" width=\"350\" height=\"172\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans la soixantaine, elle avait pris sa retraite quelques mois plus t\u00f4t. Au moment de notre entretien, il y avait d\u00e9j\u00e0 cinq ans qu\u2019elle marchait, un mois, chaque \u00e9t\u00e9. Cette ann\u00e9e \u00e9tait la derni\u00e8re. Elle arrivait \u00e0 Saint-Jacques. Elle n\u2019avait manqu\u00e9 qu\u2019une seule fois. Cet \u00e9t\u00e9-l\u00e0, elle s\u2019\u00e9tait cass\u00e9e une jambe. Quand elle se lan\u00e7a dans son r\u00e9cit, je m\u2019attendais \u00e0 ce qu\u2019elle dise quelque chose du genre : \u00ab Mon chemin a commenc\u00e9 en 2013, au nord de Paris \u00bb. Elle me parla plut\u00f4t de sa vie, de ses enfants, de son couple, du divorce, du d\u00e9c\u00e8s de sa m\u00e8re, de sa spiritualit\u00e9. L\u2019exp\u00e9rience du chemin la renvoyait continuellement \u00e0 sa propre histoire. Elle \u00e9tait intarissable! Telle rencontre \u00e9voquait sa relation avec sa m\u00e8re. Cet \u00e9v\u00e9nement la replongeait dans une relation conjugale difficile. Les demandes d\u2019aide lui rappelaient son r\u00f4le de m\u00e8re. Au fil de son r\u00e9cit, elle me raconta comment elle avait \u00e9t\u00e9 transform\u00e9e par l\u2019exp\u00e9rience et combien sa vie avait chang\u00e9. M\u00eame apr\u00e8s l\u2019entrevue, elle vint me trouver, un peu plus loin, pour continuer de me raconter \u00ab son chemin de Compostelle \u00bb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>L\u2019exp\u00e9rience du chemin a cette autorit\u00e9 : elle fait parler. Elle autorise la prise de parole. En elle, l\u2019\u0153uvre du p\u00e8lerinage s&rsquo;accomplit. Pour cette dame, l&rsquo;opportunit\u00e9 de prendre parole sur son v\u00e9cu de p\u00e8lerine \u00e9tait inestimable : \u00ab Au bout de ce chemin, disait-elle, je serai libre! Lib\u00e9r\u00e9e de tout cela! Ce sera magnifique! \u00bb. Et j\u2019avais l\u2019impression qu\u2019elle le go\u00fbtait d\u00e9j\u00e0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3822\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/25\/ce-chemin-qui-fait-parler\/20190707_124202\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?fit=4608%2C2240&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4608,2240\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.7&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-A530W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1562503322&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;3.93&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00065703022339&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20190707_124202\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?fit=1024%2C498&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?fit=1024%2C498\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3822\" width=\"350\" height=\"171\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?w=4608&amp;ssl=1 4608w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?resize=500%2C243&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?resize=768%2C373&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?resize=1024%2C498&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?w=3510&amp;ssl=1 3510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Parmi toutes les entrevues que j&rsquo;ai pu r\u00e9aliser, le r\u00e9cit des p\u00e8lerins ayant longtemps march\u00e9, c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire plus de deux semaines, d\u00e9passait souvent l\u2019anecdotique ou la chronique de voyage. Loin du chemin-objet, d\u00e9crit comme un monument, le chemin qu&rsquo;ils racontaient se faisait chemin de parole. Il ouvrait la voie pour que leur voix advienne. Bien plus qu\u2019un beau voyage, leur vie s\u2019y jouait, s\u2019y recomposait. Au rythme de leurs pas, ils faisaient une lecture neuve de leur r\u00e9cit de vie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La parole que lib\u00e8re l\u2019exp\u00e9rience du chemin exige beaucoup de la part du p\u00e8lerin. Elle demande de faire l\u2019effort de construire du sens sur la mati\u00e8re de ses pas, de savoir les lire. Ces pas qui sont exercices de m\u00e9moire, renvoient continuellement \u00e0 une autre histoire : celle d\u2019un pass\u00e9, d\u2019une \u00abautre marche\u00bb et construisent des liens, de mani\u00e8re bien sournoise parfois. La spiritualit\u00e9 p\u00e8lerine se joue dans cet espace, dans cette mani\u00e8re de re-lier les choses entre elles. Ce faisant, elle recompose les pas perdus pour les organiser dans un r\u00e9cit qui s\u2019actualise au fil du chemin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3823\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2019\/10\/25\/ce-chemin-qui-fait-parler\/20190705_131728\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190705_131728.jpg?fit=4608%2C2240&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"4608,2240\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;1.7&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;SM-A530W&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1562332648&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;3.93&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;40&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00171526586621&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"20190705_131728\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190705_131728.jpg?fit=1024%2C498&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190705_131728.jpg?fit=1024%2C498\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3823\" width=\"350\" height=\"163\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Enfin, bien plus qu\u2019un besoin de se dire, il s\u2019agit d\u2019\u00eatre\nentendu. S\u2019il y a prise de parole, celle-ci ne peut \u00eatre compl\u00e8te que si elle\nest, non pas \u00e9cout\u00e9e, mais bien \u00ab&nbsp;entendue&nbsp;\u00bb, au sens de convenue. Il\ndoit y avoir entente sur ce qui est dit et reconnaissance du r\u00e9cit. L\u2019exercice\np\u00e8lerin cherche sa validation dans cette entente. Pas une simple approbation de\nl\u2019autre, il n\u2019a pas cette autorit\u00e9, mais bien la reconnaissance de l\u2019intelligibilit\u00e9\nde son r\u00e9cit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Dis-moi ce que tu entends et je te dirai si j\u2019ai bien dit.<\/em> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3248\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/2018\/03\/30\/comme-un-grand-silence\/bottes-et-velo-embleme-3\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Bottes-et-V%C3%A9lo-Embl%C3%AAme-1-e1522416719670.png?fit=100%2C79&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"100,79\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Bottes et V\u00e9lo &amp;#8211; Embl\u00eame\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Bottes-et-V%C3%A9lo-Embl%C3%AAme-1-e1522416719670.png?fit=100%2C79&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/Bottes-et-V%C3%A9lo-Embl%C3%AAme-1-e1522416719670.png?resize=87%2C69&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3248\" width=\"87\" height=\"69\"\/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c9ric Lalibert\u00e9 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lors d\u2019une entrevue r\u00e9alis\u00e9e avec une p\u00e8lerine sur les chemins de Compostelle, je lui demandai de me raconter son chemin.  \u00c0 ma grande surprise, elle commen\u00e7a son r\u00e9cit en disant : \u00ab Vous savez, moi, je viens d\u2019une famille de neuf enfants&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3822,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"Ce #chemin qui fait #parler\nLors d\u2019une entrevue avec une p\u00e8lerine, sur les chemins de #Compostelle, je lui demandai de raconter son chemin.  \u00c0 ma grande surprise, elle commen\u00e7a son r\u00e9cit en disant : \"Vous savez, moi, je viens d\u2019une famille de 9 enfants...\"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[422,50,379,171],"tags":[478,254,560],"class_list":["post-3820","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-accompagnement","category-art-de-vivre","category-chemin-de-transformation","category-pelerinage","tag-ecouter","tag-marcher","tag-parler"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20190707_124202.jpg?fit=4608%2C2240&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4eY6z-ZC","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3820","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3820"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3820\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3830,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3820\/revisions\/3830"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3822"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3820"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3820"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bottesetvelo.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3820"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}